You are allowing whatever few good traits she had/good times she had overshadow the fact that she is abusive and toxic, which ultimately makes her an unfit You are having a hard time getting over your ex because 1. Okay . So my ex boyfriend played me bad. To cut the long story short, I bought your Dating Ex book and now my dismissive avoidant ex is opening up and emotionally engaged again. Anyway, I don my ex bf and i were together for a month. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your Ex eBook. I waited to tell my ex-fiance after he and I had been together quite some time, and he even said that if he didn't love me before he found out, he probably would have left. Tags: deception Ex girlfriend lies Love Advices relashionship problem gf bf Thread Status: Not open for further replies. You are allowing whatever few good traits she had/good times she had overshadow the fact that she is abusive and toxic, which ultimately makes her an unfit partner in a relationship. My ex and I began dating in April 2010. My ex played me Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Dee2019, Sep 12, 2019. He played me and has now moved onto a new victim. He broke up with me, even though I did all I could to get him to rescind his decision. He would get mad at me when I would say that. I remember a few times saying things like “I miss you so much, please don’t do this to me” all the while laughing my heart out imagining how the other person … We dated up until sometime in January 2012 when he broke things off due to arguing/distance. Is my ex playing mind games with me or does he want me back? Because I know the “act bothered game” like I know the back of my own hand and I played it with the best of them. Because there is a lot of bad relationship advice out there, I’m not saying that it is always the case that your ex or your significant other is a bad person because they are playing games with you. I am a mess. he’s 5 years my junior but seemed to act more maturely than i am. 10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing. I was very hurt because we turned into friends. Me and my ex break up a year again..I just been doing me he make me feel thst Im running behind him and Im not needing with him for 4 years everything is in that room .If it was not for 4 years of my things I would never contact ... My ex is a dismissive avoidant and fits perfectly to what you say. I deleted my ex from facebook, and twitter, and tumblr and that’s it because she does not have any other social media.