I got the courage to ask him on a date and he said yes.

Rejection is hard but once you overcome it, you’re invincible—well, almost. Edit4: Thank you for the gold kind stranger. Tell him that you understand and then tell him that you also believe that it's for the best.

If that reason no longer matters because you still want to be with the person, you can try to get back together. So when a guy she had been lusting over — who had recently become single — stopped by, I hatched a plan to get even. So, if you’re wondering how to get revenge, I don’t blame you.

I was 10, he was 11. When they see you out with your friends or another guy and you are attractive and confident, they will instantly feel a sense of bitterness. If you do, you just let him have the power. You must, absolutely must, accept what's happening if you want to get back a guy who broke up with you. By learning how to respond when a girl rejects you, you’ll be able to handle anything that comes flying your way in life. Edit5: For the people wondering about her intention for spying on the kids.

You just need to know how to respond when a girl rejects you.

It's like that with anyone.

Edit2: Thank you for the Silver award stranger I really do appreciate both of them. She hasn’t said a word about it. You want to know how to get revenge. How to get revenge without hurting yourself. I couldn't believe it. I suggest you get out of this cycle immediately, and try not to fall into it in the future. If you are the one who ended the relationship, remind yourself of the reason you had for doing so. I was the shy, nerdy, awkward puberty-hitting ugly duckling and nobody liked me.

Edit3: Thank you guys for the overwhelming support. She let him in, then went upstairs to primp. I was crushing on him really badly. In many cases, if you are moving on and flirting with other guys, the individual that rejected you will want to reclaim their lost territory. I really do love this subreddit. Now, since you’re a guy, you should know that you’re going to get rejected.

You have to appear mature about it and you have to keep your emotions under control. They are rejected, ... that must mean all men want revenge from women who reject them. If you are not the one who ended it, think about all … He was a confident, pretty, popular jock-heartthrob. To me it seems like your ego was damaged when she initially turned you down, and the way you handled this situation was due to that pain of rejection. ... Don't let anything a guy does to get "revenge", such as bad talk you or try to make fun of you, bring you down. But in that moment of vulnerability, we end up doing some pretty stupid shit, things that we’d advise other people not to do. I was telling all of my friends that. You are smart, funny and sexy.

I mean, this isn’t because I’m evil, it’s because I was hurt.